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THE COOLIDGE EFFECT: Why Marriages Lose Their Excitement (and How to Rekindle the Passion)

Why do many marriages lose their spark over time? Why do couples who were once deeply passionate suddenly feel like roommates? 🤔 This is what psychologists call the Coolidge Effect — a natural phenomenon where passion and excitement fade in long-term relationships , and the brain begins to crave novelty . But here’s the good news: you don’t need a new partner to feel that spark again. ❤️ In this video, you’ll discover: What the Coolidge Effect is and how it affects marriages. The psychology behind why passion fades in long-term relationships. Why infidelity isn’t always about dissatisfaction, but about the brain’s wiring toward novelty. Practical tips to rekindle love, intimacy , and excitement with your spouse. 👉 Marriage is sacred, and with the right knowledge, couples can outsmart biology, keep the fire alive, and build a love that lasts.
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Silent Tears: Sad Stories of Sexu@l Abuse Victims to Alert Parents and Guardians to Watch Their Children

 “Are you really happy?” I asked this simple question to two beautiful young ladies recently. Their answers left me shaken. Behind their youthful smiles were hidden years of sexual abuse, drugs, and neglect. Sadly, this is not an isolated case. In just one month, I have listened to three different young girls share stories of being r@ped—most often by a relative, a family friend, or someone trusted. The truth is hard to face: 🔹 Children as young as 9 years old are being exposed to drugs and sexual perversion. 🔹 Parents are often completely unaware of what their children are facing, watching, or being pressured into. 🔹 Many youths carry deep trauma, building emotional walls—locking others out while silently crying within. One young girl’s journey still haunts me: Molested by a cousin at age 6. Drawn into perverse activities by a “friend” around age 10. Drugged and r@ped by three young women. Introduced to drugs by a trusted family relative. When she finally opened up to her mothe...

This is Your Best Response When Confronted with Sexual Temptation (Video)

Have you ever been in a situation where temptation caught you off guard? Maybe you thought you were strong enough, but you quickly realized your hormones don’t respect your spirituality.  The truth is—when it comes to sexual temptation, the Bible doesn’t say fight, it says flee! In this video, I’m going to share what sexual purity really means, and give you 8 practical, Biblical keys that will help you overcome temptation and walk in purity in today’s highly sexualized world.  Stay with me, because these steps have personally transformed my life—and I believe they can transform yours too. Let me know what you think. Bye!

Pst Biodun Fatoyinbo's poverty message that got many people angry , CAC Responds

One of Nigeria's most controversial pastors, Biodun Fatoyinbo of COZA , whilst preaching on poverty made mention of pastor Ayo Babalola and Smith Wigglesworth .  He said, "I stand to be corrected but what God did through Smith Wigglesworth, if it had been documented...I am telling you people will be coming for pilgrimage. He was so anointed. He was praying one day and a python crossed his leg and dried up! He didn't even need to say, "I bind you"... Anointed man! Heavy duty grace but...no money. So all his grace just went like that. Where are his children? Where are his children? I am sure some of them will hate God."  This message has sparked a lot of criticisms against pst Fatoyinbo, with many wondering why he needed to degenerate pastor Babalola and Smith Wigglesworth because he wants to preach prosperity at all cost. CAC has also responded to Fatoyinbo's faulty assertion about Afe Babalola and I love it! Read below: CAC News Dear Pastor Biodun Fat...

What 15 Years of Marriage Taught Me About Infidelity: 3 Lessons

Can I share a part of my marital journey with you? After nearly 15 years of marriage, I’ve learned 3 powerful truths about faithfulness and infidelity — and they’re probably not what you think. 💍 In this video, I share lessons that go beyond surface-level advice. We’ll talk about why faithfulness is a personal choice, why we need God’s help to overcome temptation , and why our efforts alone can’t guarantee a faithful marriage. Whether you’re married, engaged, or preparing for marriage, these insights will help you protect your relationship, strengthen your commitment, and invite God into your marriage journey. 📖 Scripture References: 1 Thessalonians 4:3 John 15:5 Genesis 11:6 🙏 What you’ll learn: How to make a personal decision for sexual purity Why the Holy Spirit is key to staying faithful The role of prayer in safeguarding your marriage Why self-effort alone is not enough. 💬 Question for you: What’s the most important lesson you’ve learned about faithfulness in marriage? Shar...

Pst Joel Osteen's Mother is Dead at 91

Dodie Osteen, the co-founder of Lakewood Church in Houston, Texas, and the mother of the church's current leader, Joel Osteen, has died more than four decades after she said she was miraculously healed from metastatic liver cancer, even though doctors gave her weeks to live in 1981. She was 91. Joel Osteen announced his mother's passing on his social media on Wednesday night, saying she died "peacefully at her home" of "natural causes." "It is with a heavy heart that Victoria and I, along with our family, announce the passing of our cherished mother and grandmother, Dolores' Dodie' Osteen. She was the beloved matriarch of Lakewood Church, an inspiration to millions of people around the world, and a faithful servant of God," he wrote. "Known as 'Mama Dodie' to the entire Lakewood family, together, we celebrate her amazing life and lasting legacy." CP * I have heard his daughter share the story of their mother's miraculo...

"Oh my! What Have I Done!" The Last Words of the Founder of the Church of Satan, Anton LaVey

There's a lesson to be learned here and that is why I want to share this story even though it is an old one. Anto LaVey is popularly the founder of the Church of Satan and the author of the satanic bible.  He died in 1997 aged 67. In this video, a woman narrates what happened on Anton LaVey's death bed. She revealed how shocked he was to find that that which he had stood for so solidly during his lifetime, opposing everything God and Christ was false.  * Today, constantly, God's arms are constantly outstretched towards us offering us an opportunity to repent, believe in Jesus and spend eternity with Him (John 3:16). Would you rather listen to someone who doesn't know where he is headed or the One who died and resurrected and tells you clearly in His Word what eternity holds for you when you are in Him? Like they say, "Follow who know road!"

FAITH AND WORKS: Is Faith Alone Enough If There's No Obedience?

The topic of faith and works is one of the most talked-about—and often misunderstood—topics in the church. I’ve had some questions on my heart, and I’d love for us to explore them together by looking at what the Bible actually says. In this video, I share those questions and the insights I’ve found from God’s Word. Take a moment to watch, and let me know your thoughts when you’re done. I’d love to hear from you!

Super Babies? How Scientists Are Using Genetic Screening to Create Healthier, Genetically Selected Children

Super babies. What's that? Silicon Valley’s New Way of Making Babies In Silicon Valley, having babies is no longer just about love and luck—it’s becoming a data-driven process. A company called Orchid, founded by Noor Siddiqui, now lets couples use genetic testing to choose the healthiest embryos during IVF (In Vitro Fertilization). For $2,500 per embryo (on top of IVF costs), parents can check for over 1,200 genetic diseases and even assess the chances of conditions like cancer, Alzheimer’s, and schizophrenia. Siddiqui believes we’re entering a time when: “Sex is for fun. Embryo screening is for babies.” She envisions a world where people pick their children with the help of spreadsheets and algorithms—choosing the one with the best health profile. Orchid’s technology is already in 100+ IVF clinics across the U.S., especially popular in tech cities like San Francisco and Austin. Tech elites, including Elon Musk’s partner Shivon Zilis, are reportedly already using it. Here's ho...

Elon Musk's Grok introduces Sexualized AI Anime Girlfriend, Ani

Cheating just got even easier.  With the introduction of Elon Musk's new AI girlfriend, I can't begin to imagine the morally, mentally and spiritually devastating effect this AI would have on people - Christians included! And this is just the beginning.  This demonic ideation is simply meant to suck people into the world of isolation, sexual immorality, sexual perversion, sexual deviation, sexual slavery and sexual bondage. Ultimately, it is meant to pull people away from God. So let me tell you a little about this AI Girlfriend, Ani and AI boyfriend, Valentine (which I believe is still underway- not yet released). Both were created to provide raunchy services to their users. According to Economic Times, "Ani", is a sexualized anime girlfriend, characterized by her sultry voice and provocative fashion—including a short black dress, fishnet tights, and lacy choker.  Ani’s often flirtatious and playful banter has drawn immediate attention, especially since she’s current...

Unbelievable! GloRilla Wins Gospel Award — But Is She Even Saved?

Meet GloRilla. The so-called gospel singer that won the BET Award for Best Gospel/Inspirational Song at the 2025 BET Awards for her song "Rain Down On Me" featuring Kirk Franklin. So I had to pull some of her pictures from her Instagram page in order to send home my point. Jesus said in Matt 7:16, "By their fruits you shall know them." Our fruits is the physical evidence of our inward transformation. A good tree can't bear bad fruit neither can a bad tree bear good fruit (Matt 7:17). And looking at the person of GloRilla, it is clear she is obviously not born-again. When you say Gospel songs, you know that these are songs that glorifies God. But if we would look at what is happening, even Gospel songs have been reduced to entertainment.  Yes, they have lyrics that 'seem' to give God glory but clearly the person who singing this song is still very far from Him. So how does it work? Am I being judgemental? No. I am just sad that what white is called black ...

Can BDSM Be Practiced in Christian Marriage? A Biblical Perspective on Intimacy and Boundaries

Comedian Arole weighed in on this question and his answer was a big NO. And I agree with him. For those who don't know BDSM is, BDSM stands for: B – Bondage D – Discipline D – Dominance S – Submission S – Sadism M – Masochism It refers to a wide range of consensual sexual practices that involve power dynamics, role-play, and physical stimulation—often pushing the boundaries of pain, control, and pleasure. I believe that there are three questions that should guide what we do during sex in marriage. 1. Is it mutual?  God created sex to be enjoyed by both man and wife, it shouldn't be one sided. If you want to try something new and your spouse is not comfortable with it, don't force them. Let your spouse be until he/she is ready for it. 2. Is it safe?   Some couples engage in extreme sexual activities that can endanger their health or their life.  For instance: participating in degrading practices such as sadistic bondage rituals , asphyxiation (where couples are actually ar...

This is the Primary Assignment of Every Christian Parent, and It is Not What You Think...

Do you know that parenting is a ministry? Sometimes we take our parenting role for granted not knowing that it is our God given responsibility to be intentional about raising godly children. We take every other thing serious, but we neglect our role as parents. We want to succeed in our career, if you are a pastor you want succeed in your church ministry and yet we fail to pay attention to succeeding in the ministry of parenting. Whereas in our list of priority, our children should come first. Some time back, I was thinking about the fact that one day my children would have to leave the house, stand on their own and make their own decisions and I became a little scared. But God showed my something in Isaiah 60:2 while I was confessing and meditating on that Scripture. Let me share with you what I believe from God's perspective is every parent's primary assignment in their children's life, and it is not financial security. It is not education. Whilst all these things are nec...

What's Going on With Pst Michael Todd? Backlash as Todd Preaches in Female Attire

Pastor Michael Todd is well known for courting controversies. The latest is his sermon on the 27th of April, 20th where he wore a feminine attire. This so far has brought up so much criticisms on the pastor and his choice of clothes. What was his motive for wearing this? Was there a message behind it? Is this right for a Christian, or more a pastor who has millions of followers listening to him to dress so effeminate? Is this godly or outright worldly? I personally think this is purely a blend of worldliness with Christianity. I really want to know pst Michael Todd's motive for doing this. Thank God that God sees the heart and out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth will always speak (Luke 6:45). We are living in confusing times. Let's be weary and vigilant. Forget about the charisma. Look at the fruits because it's by their fruits you shall know them (Matthew 7:15:20). What do you think?

Christians, the Devil is Using This Against You!

 I believe there are about 5 things that can hinder God's word from working in our lives.  These same 5 things are those things that give the devil a legal ground to operate in our lives and mess us up. 1. Ignorance  2. Unbelief or lack of faith or doubt  3. Fear, or worry or anxiety  4. Wrong Motives  5. A lifestyle of disobedience. But in this video, I want to zero in on ignorance. Watch this eye opening video and tell me what you think.

The Dark Side of AI: Deepfakes porn crisis, Rewriting the Bible, etc.

Artificial intelligence is causing a serious crisis in South Korea right now. They call it a deepfake porn crisis. For those who don't know what Deepfake porn is, it is a sexually explicit content that has been digitally altered using artificial intelligence (AI) to superimpose someone’s face—usually without their consent—onto the body of another person in a pornographic video or image thus generating a highly realistic but fake visual content. It can be used to target dignitaries, celebrities, influencers, or even private individuals. And that means that with this tool, nobody is safe. As long as your picture is out there, anyone can use it to create an explicit deepfake and implicate you even when you've never taken or sent a nude photo. Watch full video on YouTube.

Avoid the DO-IT-YOURSELF trap!

 Some Christians struggle when they try doing life on their own and in their strength. What they are yet to realize is that the Christian life is a do-it-with-God affair not a do-it-yourself affair. Allow me break it down for you in this video. Believe me, you will be glad you watched this video.

How I know that God is REAL...

 I know God is real. There is no question about it on my part. He is more real than anything that I know and have experienced. Allow me share with you in this video two ways that I know that God is real. Please check it out and let me know what you think.