One good reason why you should stop making NEW YEAR'S RESOLUTIONS

I'm not saying making new year resolution(s) is bad.  What I am saying is what is the use making it when you don't carry it out to the end? 😉 Catch my grift? 

It's okay and very normal when people resolve to be better, do better and live better each time a new year unfolds. But quick question: How many people really accomplish their resolutions? 

Lol. I have been there too.You know that feeling nau. That determined feeling you get once it's new year:  

"Oh this year I'm going to stop being hot tempered. " 

"I want to a better husband and stop cheating," 

"I want to start a new business. No more laziness. "

"I want to be a better mother🍼 or father, stop drinking or womanizing or nagging etc," and you set out as one bent to accomplish... 

Few weeks, one month the determination dies down and out and you return to status quo - it's business as usual again. All the initial gra gra has dissipated into thin air!

The one reason why you should stop making resolutions is because it is totally useless when you don't carry them out. So why waste your time?

But if you must make 'that' resolution,  do not try accomplishing them alone, on your own and in your own strength because you CANNOT. 

💁Here's the tip: work with God in achieving your set goals concerning your business,  marriage,  children or any part of your life. 

Anytime we try to do things only God can do by our feeble human strength, we flop and then we get frustrated and give up. That's why you start off on those resolutions and never get to achieve them. So change your strategy of approach. 

Talk to God about the changes you wanna make and get to work. Take the journey a step at a time💃, a step at a time. When you fall you rise. Pick yourself up,  dust yourself and move on up. Don't be discouraged and don’t  give up😂. 

What matters is that you desire to change and you are working towards it. Whether you are crawling, or walking, or running or flying, just keep moving the right direction irrespective of the mistakes you made on your way. 

Stop looking back or you will never move ahead. Looking back merely traps you in your past and you will never make progress. 

Learn to let go of anything that takes you back to your past. 

If everything around you has to change for better, it has to start with you. Your thoughts, what you believe about yourself. 

📣HAPPY NEW YEAR 2018! 🎇🎉🎆🎊🎶