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Why do many marriages lose their spark over time? Why do couples who were once deeply passionate suddenly feel like roommates? 🤔 This is what psychologists call the Coolidge Effect — a natural phenomenon where passion and excitement fade in long-term relationships , and the brain begins to crave novelty . But here’s the good news: you don’t need a new partner to feel that spark again. ❤️ In this video, you’ll discover: What the Coolidge Effect is and how it affects marriages. The psychology behind why passion fades in long-term relationships. Why infidelity isn’t always about dissatisfaction, but about the brain’s wiring toward novelty. Practical tips to rekindle love, intimacy , and excitement with your spouse. 👉 Marriage is sacred, and with the right knowledge, couples can outsmart biology, keep the fire alive, and build a love that lasts.

 “Are you really happy?” I asked this simple question to two beautiful young ladies recently. Their answers left me shaken. Behind their youthful smiles were hidden years of sexual abuse, drugs, and neglect. Sadly, this is not an isolated case. In just one month, I have listened to three different young girls share stories of being r@ped—most often by a relative, a family friend, or someone trusted. The truth is hard to face: 🔹 Children as young as 9 years old are being exposed to drugs and sexual perversion. 🔹 Parents are often completely unaware of what their children are facing, watching, or being pressured into. 🔹 Many youths carry deep trauma, building emotional walls—locking others out while silently crying within. One young girl’s journey still haunts me: Molested by a cousin at age 6. Drawn into perverse activities by a “friend” around age 10. Drugged and r@ped by three young women. Introduced to drugs by a trusted family relative. When she finally opened up to her mothe...

Have you ever been in a situation where temptation caught you off guard? Maybe you thought you were strong enough, but you quickly realized your hormones don’t respect your spirituality.  The truth is—when it comes to sexual temptation, the Bible doesn’t say fight, it says flee! In this video, I’m going to share what sexual purity really means, and give you 8 practical, Biblical keys that will help you overcome temptation and walk in purity in today’s highly sexualized world.  Stay with me, because these steps have personally transformed my life—and I believe they can transform yours too. Let me know what you think. Bye!

One of Nigeria's most controversial pastors, Biodun Fatoyinbo of COZA , whilst preaching on poverty made mention of pastor Ayo Babalola and Smith Wigglesworth .  He said, "I stand to be corrected but what God did through Smith Wigglesworth, if it had been documented...I am telling you people will be coming for pilgrimage. He was so anointed. He was praying one day and a python crossed his leg and dried up! He didn't even need to say, "I bind you"... Anointed man! Heavy duty grace but...no money. So all his grace just went like that. Where are his children? Where are his children? I am sure some of them will hate God."  This message has sparked a lot of criticisms against pst Fatoyinbo, with many wondering why he needed to degenerate pastor Babalola and Smith Wigglesworth because he wants to preach prosperity at all cost. CAC has also responded to Fatoyinbo's faulty assertion about Afe Babalola and I love it! Read below: CAC News Dear Pastor Biodun Fat...

Can I share a part of my marital journey with you? After nearly 15 years of marriage, I’ve learned 3 powerful truths about faithfulness and infidelity — and they’re probably not what you think. 💍 In this video, I share lessons that go beyond surface-level advice. We’ll talk about why faithfulness is a personal choice, why we need God’s help to overcome temptation , and why our efforts alone can’t guarantee a faithful marriage. Whether you’re married, engaged, or preparing for marriage, these insights will help you protect your relationship, strengthen your commitment, and invite God into your marriage journey. 📖 Scripture References: 1 Thessalonians 4:3 John 15:5 Genesis 11:6 🙏 What you’ll learn: How to make a personal decision for sexual purity Why the Holy Spirit is key to staying faithful The role of prayer in safeguarding your marriage Why self-effort alone is not enough. 💬 Question for you: What’s the most important lesson you’ve learned about faithfulness in marriage? Shar...

Dodie Osteen, the co-founder of Lakewood Church in Houston, Texas, and the mother of the church's current leader, Joel Osteen, has died more than four decades after she said she was miraculously healed from metastatic liver cancer, even though doctors gave her weeks to live in 1981. She was 91. Joel Osteen announced his mother's passing on his social media on Wednesday night, saying she died "peacefully at her home" of "natural causes." "It is with a heavy heart that Victoria and I, along with our family, announce the passing of our cherished mother and grandmother, Dolores' Dodie' Osteen. She was the beloved matriarch of Lakewood Church, an inspiration to millions of people around the world, and a faithful servant of God," he wrote. "Known as 'Mama Dodie' to the entire Lakewood family, together, we celebrate her amazing life and lasting legacy." CP * I have heard his daughter share the story of their mother's miraculo...

There's a lesson to be learned here and that is why I want to share this story even though it is an old one. Anto LaVey is popularly the founder of the Church of Satan and the author of the satanic bible.  He died in 1997 aged 67. In this video, a woman narrates what happened on Anton LaVey's death bed. She revealed how shocked he was to find that that which he had stood for so solidly during his lifetime, opposing everything God and Christ was false.  * Today, constantly, God's arms are constantly outstretched towards us offering us an opportunity to repent, believe in Jesus and spend eternity with Him (John 3:16). Would you rather listen to someone who doesn't know where he is headed or the One who died and resurrected and tells you clearly in His Word what eternity holds for you when you are in Him? Like they say, "Follow who know road!"