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Have you ever been in a situation where you feel so pressed you just have to get to the bathroom to empty you bladder but because you are in a real important meeting, you just have to hold it in somehow? Lol. I can identify with that. Do you notice that when you remove your mind from the fact that your bladder is literally bursting you will stop feeling the pressure? Yes. It doesn't rule out the fact that you still have to relieve yourself but in the meantime, forgetting about it makes you feel better until you are able to use the bathroom.  It's the same thing when it comes to handling life's daily pressures. So how do we handle these pressures? We take our minds off it 'cause the more we focus on our problems the heavier it becomes and we grow even more worried.  We should refuse to focus on those pressures, those nagging problems and choose to focus on God and what He is saying concerning that situation. If we do this, it becomes more bearable and easier ...

I don't know if this happened here in Nigeria or not. It was a stomach churning video I pulled off social media of a young girl, whom I suspect should a househelp, sexually molesting a little girl of about 4 or 5 years old in her care. They seem to be coming back from church or something. Someone from a nearby building covered the act. I sure hope the person also reported this incidence to the parents of that young girl. I screen grabbed the video because I definitely cannot put the video here. It's a wake up call for parents to please watch their children. Why leave your children alone in the care of a stranger when you aren't there? The world is so perverse that its even difficult to trust anyone but yourself to take care of your kids, guarding them physically and spiritually.  Your children are your most precious possessions and if anything happens to them, God will hold you responsible. You have no excuse whatsoever. If we value our children, why would we not ...

  Won't say much here. Let them speak for themselves.   *So you know who they truly serve, whose words they propagate and whose lifestyle they promote. More reads: Hollywood celebrities and the occult.

Article not written by me. I found it quite interesting and I know you will too *wink* 1. Pray with your wife .  It’s proven that men who pray with their wives feel close to them, it creates better communication between both of them and makes a ‘no big deal’ out of petty things. Ask your wife if you can take some time each day to pray together. 2. Pray for your wife .  Pray the marriage prayer for your wife everyday.  3. Spend time alone with her.    How we spend our time reveals what is really important to us. Successful couples spend time together. Why not go on a date , a vacation, anything just to be with your woman?  4. Listen to her deeply without giving an overly quick reply .   Listening deeply requires that we don't respond too quickly, don't criticize, and don't give advice unless the other person asks for it. (Everyone dreads being "fixed.") Listening lubricates marriage and cuts down on friction. 5. Touch h...